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Here’s one litmus test that reflects how people see Black women: the various responses to our First Lady, Michelle Obama. Like her or not — and please, who cares either way — it is interesting that an accomplished, elegant, Ivy League-educated woman who is married — and how important the latter is in this society — is called the President’s (!) “Baby Mama.” Her arms are fetishized. When she wears extremely unremarkable mom-shorts, they are likened to “Daisy Dukes.” She appears in a Google search with a monkey’s face. Her oldest daughter, who is not even a teenager yet and has no curves to speak of, is likened to a whore. Naturally, wearing a T-shirt with a peace symbol and braids is akin to wearing a thong, and nothing else, to Catholic School. And this is the First Family.

So yeah, there is a LITTLE antipathy towards Black women. Perhaps, a SMALL bias. This has NOTHING to do with white supremacist notions… and the hardened racsim that is directed towards Black people, regardless of their background. There is NO connection between this and social prospects for Black women. It JUST SO HAPPENS that Black women get the least responses. And, of course, it’s reasonable to guess that maybe they are LONELIER and have LESS SELF-ESTEEM.

And all of the above is written because I am 120% hopeful that a white male will contact me; 27% hopeful that a Japanese male will contact me; 16% hopeful to hear from a Pacific Islander; 87% hoping a Black man will give me a shout-out; and 300% desiring of white female friendship, so that true femininity can be role-modeled for me. But because I am such a pariah, maybe someone will upload a “How to be Black and Sleep at Night” guide to YouTube … where all the other helpful, educational and objective information can be found.