Love Gone Wrong Is Writing Itself
How to Burn Down a Marriage
The Key to a Great Marriage: Hating the Same Things
6 Reasons Why Having Childless Friends Is Awesome
The 7 Stages of First Best Friendship
I Will Probably Always Be a Single Mom
What the Statistics Won't Tell You About Single Mothers
10 Lessons About Friendship for My Daughter
I'm a Single Mom Taking My Chances on Ellen DeGeneres' Matchmaking Skills
Dear Single Moms on Valentine’s Day — You're Going to Be OK
On Mentally Preparing Myself for Dating as a Single Mom
Jennifer Lopez and I Approach Dating the Same Way: We Don't Do It
This Is What Divorce Looks Like
My Divorce Has Left Me with a Laundry List of Deal Breakers
Solid. Now you’re a guy who has a hot hairdresser friend and this is the 90-10 rule in action (before, you might’ve stopped at “wears her hair like that…” and just waited for her to do something and then been all “ah shit rejected!!!!” when she doesn’t know what to say). The whole time you’re talking, she’s processing you and trying to figure out whether to categorize you as the next random lame guy of the night or someone she should be interested in.
Your hairdresser routine is solid. It’s got enough DHV stuff in it as-is so keep using it if you enjoy it. Notice that you’re ending up in the exact same spot you’d end up if you were a “normal” guy approaching and “winging it”…you end up at “So what do you do?” except instead of going “My name is Bob, nice to meet you Sarah, so what do you do?”, you’ve instead conveyed a bunch of fun personality, implied that you hang with a hot hairdresser chick, cold-read her and possibly complimented her in that cold-read, and assertively stated “So you’re not a hairdresser, what are you?” like you’re qualifying/testing her.
How much more attractive and an emotional investment in the interaction is that for her, compared to Bob and Sarah, you know?
“Turns out, that set of three girls is a set of -five- girls.”
lol this happens a lot. This is part of why I say don’t stress picking only hot targets to approach, especially at the start of the night…or even dudes. Often you’ll be shooting the shit and then some hotties will join the group and you’re like “score!!” and have a solid intro from their friend with the new girls. I’ve had 2-sets turn into 7+ sets when I was out solo lol
“oh shit, I really failed to engage everyone, oh man.”
How to Burn Down a Marriage
The Key to a Great Marriage: Hating the Same Things
6 Reasons Why Having Childless Friends Is Awesome
The 7 Stages of First Best Friendship
I Will Probably Always Be a Single Mom
What the Statistics Won't Tell You About Single Mothers
10 Lessons About Friendship for My Daughter
I'm a Single Mom Taking My Chances on Ellen DeGeneres' Matchmaking Skills
Dear Single Moms on Valentine’s Day — You're Going to Be OK
On Mentally Preparing Myself for Dating as a Single Mom
Jennifer Lopez and I Approach Dating the Same Way: We Don't Do It
This Is What Divorce Looks Like
My Divorce Has Left Me with a Laundry List of Deal Breakers
Solid. Now you’re a guy who has a hot hairdresser friend and this is the 90-10 rule in action (before, you might’ve stopped at “wears her hair like that…” and just waited for her to do something and then been all “ah shit rejected!!!!” when she doesn’t know what to say). The whole time you’re talking, she’s processing you and trying to figure out whether to categorize you as the next random lame guy of the night or someone she should be interested in.
Your hairdresser routine is solid. It’s got enough DHV stuff in it as-is so keep using it if you enjoy it. Notice that you’re ending up in the exact same spot you’d end up if you were a “normal” guy approaching and “winging it”…you end up at “So what do you do?” except instead of going “My name is Bob, nice to meet you Sarah, so what do you do?”, you’ve instead conveyed a bunch of fun personality, implied that you hang with a hot hairdresser chick, cold-read her and possibly complimented her in that cold-read, and assertively stated “So you’re not a hairdresser, what are you?” like you’re qualifying/testing her.
How much more attractive and an emotional investment in the interaction is that for her, compared to Bob and Sarah, you know?
“Turns out, that set of three girls is a set of -five- girls.”
lol this happens a lot. This is part of why I say don’t stress picking only hot targets to approach, especially at the start of the night…or even dudes. Often you’ll be shooting the shit and then some hotties will join the group and you’re like “score!!” and have a solid intro from their friend with the new girls. I’ve had 2-sets turn into 7+ sets when I was out solo lol
“oh shit, I really failed to engage everyone, oh man.”