If you’re one of those people who “fade”, or lie, not to spare the other person’s feelings, but to avoid telling a truth that might lead to discomfort for yourself, please refrain from dating until you grow a pair (balls, boobs, whatever).

If you’re one of these people who falls apart at being told directly that someone isn’t interested in pursuing a relationship with you, then please work on your insecurities before entering the dating world. You won’t be the right fit for everyone, so get over it. Having so many people feel that it’s okay to lie to accommodate you makes it harder on the rest of us, who can take the truth, and appreciate it.

If your reason for being indirect and evasive is in order to keep people on your list of options for either free entertainment or sex without commitment or avoiding a lonely weekend, please learn to treat people with more respect. Other people aren’t yours to use for your own ends, and to deliberately lie in order to keep ‘em where you want ‘em until you’re done with them is simply wrong.



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