When My Mother Died - Our Marriage Fell Apart
The Unconsummated Marriage: Breaking the Silence on Vaginismus
We've Been Growing Apart for Years
I Want a Baby; He Doesn't
One in Two? The Truth About the Divorce Rate
Modern Takes on Traditional Anniversary Gifts
4 Relationship Resolutions for 2025
After the Sexin’s Gone
Confronting Indifference in a Relationship Affected by Illness
Happy Endings for Everyone
Why Don’t We Get Drunk and Screw
Witchy Woman
You’ll Never Get to Second Base with That Kiss
Challenging Ageism in the Dating World
Why Do You Need Us to Hate Each Other?
Hey guys, let me just say right off the bat this blog is the shit and so is all the commenter input. Thanks for giving me a retreat from this increasingly grim reality I live in.
I was hoping for some advice: sometime in my mid-20′s I became a serious workaholic, even to the point where I sometimes work 2 full-time jobs. I have no illusions about why I am this way: I do it to escape or deflect loneliness and depression. I’ve become quite isolated as a result of it, though I never really had much of a social life to begin with. Now approaching 30, and Game-aware, I’m wondering if I’m wasting my time. Sure, it’s nice to get money, but I don’t even know what my endgame is.
So what’s more important to you guys, working hard and becoming financially sufficient, or practicing Game and aqcuiring notches? For me anyway, focusing on one leaves very little time for the other. Keep in mind I’m not looking for any kind of relationship; even before swallowing the red pill I knew that marrying an American woman was like eating a bullet, only worse. Still, I get twangs of unhappiness here and there. I want to be able to relax and enjoy myself with a girl every now and then.
If you’re posting, your brain is starting to realize that you’re missing something. The good news is that it’s not too late to start living your life. It’s all in your control. :)
You can’t learn how to handle women without interacting with women. That’s why if you take a Keyboard Jockey pro who’s read and studied everything under the sky about pickup and you put him in a bar he will shit his pants and get drunk in a corner by himself and go home alone.
You need to build the reference experiences that drill into your mind “do this or that will happen again”. Even if you understand all the logic, without experience you will convince yourself that that’s “only those bar slut girls, the girl *I* choose would never be like that” I can TELL you to get a girl’s number instead of giving her yours. I can give you every logical reason in the world and you can fully understand them. But you’ll meet your perfect dream girl you want to marry and she’ll say “I don’t give out my number, give me yours, I promise I’ll call you and we’ll do all those things we talked about and get married blah blah” and you’ll go “hmmmmm…….okay!” And give her your number. And then you’ll never hear from her ever again.
The Unconsummated Marriage: Breaking the Silence on Vaginismus
We've Been Growing Apart for Years
I Want a Baby; He Doesn't
One in Two? The Truth About the Divorce Rate
Modern Takes on Traditional Anniversary Gifts
4 Relationship Resolutions for 2025
After the Sexin’s Gone
Confronting Indifference in a Relationship Affected by Illness
Happy Endings for Everyone
Why Don’t We Get Drunk and Screw
Witchy Woman
You’ll Never Get to Second Base with That Kiss
Challenging Ageism in the Dating World
Why Do You Need Us to Hate Each Other?
Hey guys, let me just say right off the bat this blog is the shit and so is all the commenter input. Thanks for giving me a retreat from this increasingly grim reality I live in.
I was hoping for some advice: sometime in my mid-20′s I became a serious workaholic, even to the point where I sometimes work 2 full-time jobs. I have no illusions about why I am this way: I do it to escape or deflect loneliness and depression. I’ve become quite isolated as a result of it, though I never really had much of a social life to begin with. Now approaching 30, and Game-aware, I’m wondering if I’m wasting my time. Sure, it’s nice to get money, but I don’t even know what my endgame is.
So what’s more important to you guys, working hard and becoming financially sufficient, or practicing Game and aqcuiring notches? For me anyway, focusing on one leaves very little time for the other. Keep in mind I’m not looking for any kind of relationship; even before swallowing the red pill I knew that marrying an American woman was like eating a bullet, only worse. Still, I get twangs of unhappiness here and there. I want to be able to relax and enjoy myself with a girl every now and then.
If you’re posting, your brain is starting to realize that you’re missing something. The good news is that it’s not too late to start living your life. It’s all in your control. :)
You can’t learn how to handle women without interacting with women. That’s why if you take a Keyboard Jockey pro who’s read and studied everything under the sky about pickup and you put him in a bar he will shit his pants and get drunk in a corner by himself and go home alone.
You need to build the reference experiences that drill into your mind “do this or that will happen again”. Even if you understand all the logic, without experience you will convince yourself that that’s “only those bar slut girls, the girl *I* choose would never be like that” I can TELL you to get a girl’s number instead of giving her yours. I can give you every logical reason in the world and you can fully understand them. But you’ll meet your perfect dream girl you want to marry and she’ll say “I don’t give out my number, give me yours, I promise I’ll call you and we’ll do all those things we talked about and get married blah blah” and you’ll go “hmmmmm…….okay!” And give her your number. And then you’ll never hear from her ever again.