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Your routine is solid because it sets you apart from the chodes she hates dating and it’s exhibiting the sexual frame thing going on. It also indicates that you just “get it” as Rollo says and beyond that, cute girls can tell when a guy is agreeing and trying to fly under the radar via the nice guy express to get in their pants. To a large extent, they spot it a mile away and sniff it out and don’t let you get past the vaginal gates when you nod your head and agree all the time.
on January 30, 2013 at 1:13 am
“Her: “oh yeah IG, what are YOUR intentions then””
Notice that with both of your experiences, the pattern was consistent:
1) Define yourself as different from other men
2) Make a Statement of Intent (or at least imply that you have more intentions than being her friend)
3) She shit-tests you about it to see if you’re congruent
4) You pass the shit-test by not apologizing for your desires as man or backtracking, thus being congruent, her attraction spikes through the roof, and the deal is sealed
Step 3 is important, because if you’re full of shit, Step 3 is where she’s going to weed that out. This is where outcome independence comes in, a supplicative Beta will say whatever he thinks she wants to hear politically-correct style so as not to risk fucking it up, but a congruent guy will stick to what he meant and risk losing her…that congruence representing outcome independence is what spikes her temperature.
@walawala
Solid stuff. That’s calibration in action, picking up on the signals of when to introduce different parts of your personality. It’s not the same as lying or supplicating to what the girl wants, it’s just being calibrated enough to understand the optimal time to display different sides of you. It’s like knowing to wear a suit when you go to a formal event instead of your sweatpants.
True or False: Most Men Marry (Women Like) Their Mother
10 Super Powers Every Husband Wished He Had
7 Financial Mistakes Which May Have You on Divorce's Doorstep
5 Ways Faith in God Will Help Your Marriage
What Your Wife Really Wants to Hear You Say
25 Ways to Act Like You Love Your Spouse
5 Ways a Husband Can Keep the Fireworks Poppin' in Marriage — Even After July 4th
To Those Who Think Having a Wife Is Easier Than Having a Husband
8 Things Women Will Never Get Tired Of
Want a Big Family? Marry a Feminist (or Just a Man with Common Sense)
If Celebrities Can't Stay Married, What About the Rest of Us?)
Your routine is solid because it sets you apart from the chodes she hates dating and it’s exhibiting the sexual frame thing going on. It also indicates that you just “get it” as Rollo says and beyond that, cute girls can tell when a guy is agreeing and trying to fly under the radar via the nice guy express to get in their pants. To a large extent, they spot it a mile away and sniff it out and don’t let you get past the vaginal gates when you nod your head and agree all the time.
on January 30, 2013 at 1:13 am
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“Her: “oh yeah IG, what are YOUR intentions then””
Notice that with both of your experiences, the pattern was consistent:
1) Define yourself as different from other men
2) Make a Statement of Intent (or at least imply that you have more intentions than being her friend)
3) She shit-tests you about it to see if you’re congruent
4) You pass the shit-test by not apologizing for your desires as man or backtracking, thus being congruent, her attraction spikes through the roof, and the deal is sealed
Step 3 is important, because if you’re full of shit, Step 3 is where she’s going to weed that out. This is where outcome independence comes in, a supplicative Beta will say whatever he thinks she wants to hear politically-correct style so as not to risk fucking it up, but a congruent guy will stick to what he meant and risk losing her…that congruence representing outcome independence is what spikes her temperature.
@walawala
Solid stuff. That’s calibration in action, picking up on the signals of when to introduce different parts of your personality. It’s not the same as lying or supplicating to what the girl wants, it’s just being calibrated enough to understand the optimal time to display different sides of you. It’s like knowing to wear a suit when you go to a formal event instead of your sweatpants.